A blessed day to all of us. I hope you're all well there. A good day to start writing again after a long time without greeting my friends on the blog hive. I've been incredibly busy, so I haven't had time to share any posts. Today, I'm trying to start a new chapter here. Today's theme is very interesting. Thank you to the team in this community who have collaborated and come up with creative ideas for each week's theme.

And today's theme is asking for help. How often do we ask for help from others? Do we really need it, or are we just trying to maintain our ego? Or are we that fragile? In this world, we certainly need each other. It's commonplace. The chain of life is one of mutual need and mutual benefit. It's perfectly natural that when we're unable and need help, we immediately ask for help from others. However, sometimes we feel selfish even though we're clearly unable and unable to do it, but we still maintain our pride and don't want to ask for help.

It's undeniable that we all have different principles. Some people are reluctant to ask for help and dislike it. Others ask for help only when they really need it. Yet, there are also those who, even when they do, ask for help without even trying first. It all stems from human nature. I myself am among those who rarely ask for help unless it's extremely difficult and beyond my capabilities.

This dislike of asking for help is deeply rooted in my psyche. It's better to do things yourself than to ask for help. There are several advantages I can appreciate from this: I feel more independent, creative, and resilient because I've been frequently honed with complex things—in quotation marks, I'm not spoiled. On the other hand, there are moments of excitement and satisfaction in the achievements we have achieved through effort and hard work that require mental skills and energy. For me, relying too much on others' help is not a healthy state. Our brains become less responsive and less able to think about complex matters because they quickly reach a dead end, namely asking for help.

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I I also don't blame those who often ask for help just for small things that are actually easy and can be done on their own. My principles differ from theirs. I actually disagree with those who refuse to ask for help at all, even though their abilities are clearly limited. However, their ego prevents them from asking for help, leaving the problem unsolved and becoming a bad thing. In fact, everything has a solution and can be resolved if we ask for help when our minds are at a dead end and unable to solve a problem.

So, in conclusion, I prefer the principle of trying first with all our abilities, not asking for help without trying. However, it's also not good to not ask for help when your abilities are exhausted.

_{Thank you for everything Regards @yuliadi}