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Soy la mejor socra del mundo/ I am the best Socra in the world.- LOH #284 📷 ☕ [ESP-ENG]
A new term to learn comes from the Latin word socra: mother-in-law is the mother of one's spouse. I must say I had the best mother-in-law in the world, one of those who didn't interfere in the relationship, who corrected me privately if necessary, and who generally agreed with me. I never liked how my ex-husband treated his mother; he was very rude. Now, years later, when I look at him, he treats all the women around him very badly. But that's a topic for another time.
So, being a good mother-in-law seems essential to me for maintaining family harmony. If I think about the past, I find a pattern that often repeats itself in some families. Just as there are bad mothers-in-law, we also find very bad mothers.
VERSION ESPAÑOL(click here!)Un termino nuevo para aprender proviene del latín socra: suegra es la madre del cónyuge. Realmente debo decir que tuve la mejor suegra del mundo, de esas que no se metía en la relación, que me corregía si hacia falta en forma privada y que por lo general me daba la razón. Jamás me gusto como trataba mi exmarido a su madre, era muy descortés. Ahora años después que lo miro el trata muy mal a todas las mujeres a su alrededor. Pero esto es un punto para otra oportunidad.
Así que ser una buena suegra me parece primordial para mantener el equilibrio familiar. Si me pongo a pensar en el pasado encuentro un patrón que muchas veces se repite en algunas familias. Como hay suegras malas, también encontramos madres muy malas.
This is my entry for the Hive Ladies of Hive Community Contest @ladiesofhive/ladies-of-hive-community-contest-284" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Post Ladies of Hive Community Contest #284. The topic was suggested by my friend @ifarmgirl, and there were two questions. I chose to answer the second one: What are you like as a mother-in-law? If you are yet to become one, please share how you imagine yourself as a mother-in-law in the future.
I'm already a mother-in-law. My daughter married a young man from our hometown, whom she loves very much. Together, they faced the challenge of emigrating from their country and overcame many difficulties. They are truly a great example to us all. And here, as a mother and mother-in-law, I had to hold back many tears, feeling them alone and struggling in the world. From here, all I could do was encourage them to keep going.
My son-in-law calls me "mother-in-law" and he does it with a lot of affection. He always sends me messages during the week and is very attentive. I know the issue is me as a mother-in-law, but I believe it's a relationship of give and take.
VERSION ESPAÑOL(click here!)Esta es mi participación en el concurso de las damas de Hive [Post Ladies of Hive Community Contest #284](https://hive.blog/hive-124452/@ladiesofhive/ladies-of-hive-community-contest-284) con los temas aportados por la amiga @ifarmgirl con dos preguntas, yo me incline a contestar la segunda: ¿Cómo eres como suegra? Si aún no lo eres, comparte cómo te imaginas como suegra en el futuro.
Ya soy suegra, mi hija se caso con un joven de nuestra ciudad natal, que la quiere mucho y que juntos afrontaron el tener que emigrar de su país, sortearon juntos muchas dificultades, la verdad es que juntos son un gran ejemplo. Y yo aquí como madre y suegra tuve que contener muchas lagrimas al sentirlos que estaban solos luchando en el mundo y desde aquí solo podía animarlos a seguir adelante.
Mi yerno me llama suegrita y lo hace con mucho cariño, siempre me envía mensajes en la semana y esta pendiente. Se que el tema es yo como suegra, pero creo que es una relación de dar y recibir.
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