Stretching out hand for help but no helping hands.

In life I always believe in trying myself, I don't believe that it is over even when is seems to be difficult. Things become rough and not easy growing again, I don't give up I need instant help from other people I have grown to be that way. Most of the times I find it difficult to keep going that somewhere even without achieving some of the things I feel like I'm going to achieve, however I always console myself with some of the ways that not everything I dreamt of, will be achieved. You want that I cannot easily ask of help from other persons or people around experiences from far back, have made me change my mind over such decision.

To some persons it is very easy to call for help when you are in need even without even try. Person can easily reach out to people and luckily for them, people will come for their help. But to some persons, it is not that way. You wait and wait until it get to a point of ending before you can see help coming and at some point it doesn't come. So whenever you share your problem with people hoping that they will respond or reach out to some persons, the anticipation that they will respond to you positively, and you get a negative feedback, possibility of rain not reaching out to other persons is high.

How about no matter if you get help from people whenever you ask or not, if you begin to ask for help from people often all of a sudden it because part of you that any little problem that you face you no longer want to solve them by yourself right there you want people or start looking for people who to reach out to to solve the problem for you or help you provide solution, meanwhile a little effort or more strategic planning would have render you a solution to the problem, but you always choose to call for people to help you.

Don't get me wrong, if you have legit people who you can call and they will help you in terms of your needy times, it is advisable and applicable you called, nobody leave and survive in hardship just because they want to enjoy the phase of hardship, so if you have a way to make life easier for you why not use that route, however if you happen to be someone who doesn't have anybody to call onto for help, people who are surrounding you are not going to help you sincerely, whenever you share your story or your challenges with them instead of it being half solved, to escalate ×2.

Most of the time it has disadvantage or advantage, reaching out to people and know it in other people for help. Which can benefit you and also at the same time give you disadvantage or what I can repair as demerits.

When you reach out to people, for a help, it has Some of the advantages that it enables you, reduce the load at which they are on you, Indeed it to be half solved. However the disadvantage or demerit is that, it makes you, dependence on people who always help you and whenever they fell to help you you become handicap because you have become used to depending on them for help.

However, for me I have grown to believe that, nobody got my back, I have to do everything I have to do, to survive.