Helping Strangers Is Easy — But Seeking Help? That’s a Different Story

I've seen people living days doing everything by themselves without asking anyone to do it for them and those are the best of kinds.

Like you're doing your own work and minding your business unlike some people who'd tell others to do this and that? As if you're servant?

Yea it makes sense to ask for a help, once or twice but some people are so used to of if they'd always go around asking people to do things for them.

I kind of stay away from people who always approach you when only they need a sort of help. I myself don't engage in such things because I know it's weird to go and ask for someone help, it should be a rare occurrence.

Getting help isn't something I do often

I'd rather starve myself to the death than go around asking people to help me. I remember when my accounts were all locked, bank and everything

Money was stuck in there and I had it posted here but never asked anyone for any sort of help because I knew I'd work on it and sort it out myself as it's my problem, not anyone's else.

So instead I used ai as a leverage and made lawsuit, sent it to the fintech wallets and got it unlocked in an hour or two.

Later I found many people who encountered with the same problem so I gave them the same advice, helping others is something easy for me but asking for help is like too difficult, just not possible.

When someone decline, it's worse?

Before asking for help, the thought that enters mind is what if they decline to help? That itself keeps me away from asking anyone to help.

I mean self respect is everything and the fear of getting rejected is much more worse.

I haven't learnt to say no yet and when someone at work asks me to do something, I just do it out of pity cause I can't say no.

Cause I think it is humiliating saying no when someone is asking for a help? Do you feel the same or it's just me?

but you never forget?

I ain't saying that I've never took help, I did but a rare occurrence, and I'd not go back and forth asking for help over and over again

And once someone who helps me, that person becomes someone you don't forget, you always keep door open for such person and when they're in need of help you become the first hand to offer it?

It is the kind of code I have in life and live by, do good and expect nothing, do help where you can when you're capable, never say no when you can help.

Doesn't matter if it is with money or has to do with anything else, the money will comeback ten fold when You're doing with the right intention. I guess most of you'd agree how helping others is easy compared to seeking help? Do share what you think about it in the comments.

that's all folks.