The psychology of love...

there's been some heavy thoughts in my head about these subject of love that I feel compelled to air it out, when it comes to the matter of love, certain aspect is best left unsaid, the reason is because we are humans, we have different opinions and perspective about different things all together and also because love is big on our emotions it controls the better part of us, no matter how tough any body is when it comes to the issue of love they can turn into jelly fishes... (not literally tho)

Men an women are built differently for instance the man Is built physically to handle a lot of stuffs his physical strength enables him to do anything possible, with that he's often in charge, commands respect and controls everything, the man was design this way because of the task he will and is likely to face. https://img.leopedia.io/DQmd1tt58KE3Fox54dZDMdG8RtksEBvZYkhouECHTEoj1SQ/images%204.jpeg source

the woman on the other hand is designed differently, her physical stature is such that enables her to birth, nurture and groom life, this is to say she's built inwardly(emotionally) while the man is built outwardly (physically), because the woman Is built inwardly she has the ability to house control and to an extend manipulate love because love is emotion and every human has emotions and also because we are most of the time controlled by our emotions and women understand the emotional part of love more than the man that gives them the edge and liberty to be in charge emotionally which to me is the strongest aspect of the human make up.

like I said the issue of love and loving comes with so much controversy, and so it's best left to be, but I just felt I should put up some post about what I feel is what it is.

be it from the woman or man both gender has actually fallen victims to their emotional feelings of finding compatibility, now this like in finances is not an advice but an opinion I feel is what is obtainable in reality without the cloud of emotions covering our faces.

Whenever a man approaches a woman the first line of conversation is likely to centre around what he can do or provide for the woman, he does this by either through his appearance or possessions the woman then interprets this to mean a safe haven or safety net for her, now except her heart chooses the man he will end up among her list of ex's.

because women house emotions more than men they understand the game better, if a woman's heart chooses a man based on certain parameters best known to her as a person, either she sees and understand the potential he has and it matches with what she wants then it's a 💯 go chances for the Man, this is when you see love thrives. effortlessly with ease, this is when you look and say indeed love is beautiful, it's so because the woman's heart accept the man not because of his possessions, looks or sometimes potentials, her heart just goes out to him, that's who she choose.

but in the case where it's quite the opposite that emotional feelings will only last as long as the initial manifesto from the man keeps up and even at that in most cases if her heart sees the one she wants whether it's way below or above the current man's status there will be a break out.....

you can however feel free to relate in the comment section I'll be glad to hear your thoughts on this matter.

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