MY LIFE AS A MOTHER INLAW

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If I have to imagine myself as a mother-in-law, I would really want to be someone who brings peace and not be overbearing to my child and his wife, or the other way around. My aim is to support, not to control. I would want to respect their privacy, their family, their relationship, and give them space to grow together without too much interference.

I will treat my child's partner with kindness and fairness, not just as an outsider but as a part of the family because he or she has married into the family and has automatically become my child. I believe respect should go both ways. Respect is reciprocated, so I will give out respect and also expect to be respected. At the end of the day, but I would never demand it abruptly instead I will try to earn it through fairness in my actions and attitude.

Communication is very important to me. I love being open and honest but also I would have to be careful with my words. It is very good to avoid unnecessary criticism, comparisons with others, and so on as it brings down self-esteem.

Everyone is different in their own ways, we are all unique. I would accept their own way of doing things. In my not always imaginary, I would also try not to overstep my boundaries. It is very easy for parents to feel like they have control over everything but it is important to always remind yourself that these children are adults now, they have their own decisions, their lifestyle, the way they choose to be respected. I'll only give advice when they decide to bring in a third party into their marriage, and I will do that gently.

I would also want to be very approachable, someone they can come to for support and guidance. Someone who can be their comfort. I would like to create a safe space and environment where they feel accepted, not judged. There's this feeling that comes with being open to your children and then being able to access you anytime they want and tell you things that are going on in their life. Most of the time, we help them make the right decisions.

I would want to focus on love and unity. Family should feel like a place of peace, not stress. If there is a disagreement, I would handle them in a mature way without creating too much force and tension.

Well, I am not married yet, and I don't know what my mother-in-law would be like. I am just saying what I would be like as a mother-in-law. I would love to be a mother-in-law who understands, respects boundaries, and aims for peace. I want to be perfect, but I will always try to build a healthy and supportive family relationship.

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