CHOOSING POSITIVE ENERGY
@betheloji12
Posted 1d ago · 3 min read
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Positive selfishness that sounds in you were positive selfishness means choosing yourself in a very healthy and balanced way it is not really about being rude or caring nonchalant and ignoring others is simply means understanding your only protecting your own energy making decisions that supports your own well-being without harming anybody around you.
A lot of people grow up thinking that being selfish is always bad they always feel beautiful putting themselves first yes I've always been in that shoes too I think to make everybody around with you good comfortable and happy while I suffer I don't even have time to take care of myself properly.
Life has been so busy lately that at this point I really need some time of for myself but I have family to attend to I have a lot of things that I will take away my time but if anything should happen to me life will definitely move on and everybody will be fine that is the thing that we clearly do not understand.
The truth is that if you keep giving to others without taking care of yourself you will eventually feel during stressed and even we sent for I mean you would literally be angry at every moment.
One good way of practicing positive selfishness is by sitting boundaries this means you know what you can handle and what you cannot handle if you feel tired and overwhelmed it is okay to say good to extra waste possibilities saying no doesn't make you a bad person a simply means you're being honest about your limits
Another important part of positive selfishness is self-care making sure to take time to rest it do things that make you happy it could be simply listening to music for me it could be danceing and writing focusing on my personal goals being creative this moment help me to recharge and become a better version of myself.
Positive selfishness also involves in making derived decisions about my future sometimes I may have to choose a party that order do not fully understand it's my feel very uncomfortable but trusting my self is the most important thing my life is my responsibility and I deserve to make choices that will bring up my growth and peace.
At the same time positive selfishness includes empathy it is very good to care about others and support them but not at the cost of my own mental and emotional health everything has to be balanced we should not go beyond our limits.
At the end of the day you find out that positive selfishness is a form of self-respect its constantly remind you that you'll need to matter to when you take care of yourself you are actually in a better position to connect with other people in a very healthy way
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