Why I Angry to Someone that Simply Said "Use your Effort!"

Hi, there! Welcome back to my third blog in the rant, complain, and talk. Although I now rather dislike telling my story in real life, which is a few stories that happened from a bigger occasion, such as the Ramadan or Eid al-Fitr 2026 story, I mostly want to tell another, equal to the social psychological experiences.

However, I must say sorry to all of you who are not confident in this kind of blog. Somehow, the real-life experiences story is mostly saved for being read in your spare time, yet I think that social psychology might not be important because you dislike other people's problem stories, but if you were into these topics, it would also be a generous and interesting.

So, let's start with the topic that I would talk about on this occasion. In this life, now I live a very monotone life. Somehow, the reason is appointed on myself as a homey girl, who lives as a freelancer and settles at my parents' house. However, someday my pace went so powerful, and I'll go lead and fill up my day with none of boredom, but that's recent time, I am feeling sick of life as a freelancer nowadays.

The pattern was gone through undifferent and the same as the one by one, which seldom catches a surprise and sparks like there is some new spirit come. My current sense of satisfaction became weaker than it felt, and I felt no sense again. I guess that if there were no rhythm in a miracle for me, I would have to change a lot of my daily routines, of course, also in the way of working as a creative worker.

My daily activities as a writer, both for the Peakd blog and many kinds of efforts to get a job under a company, are more like hell. I can not bear my skills when it comes to writing compared to many other skills and opportunities that are more financially rewarding than my progression. So, in these days of creative working competition, someone who is fast to learn new and best opportunities may find their ways of money-lucks.

But, to find that kind of financial success in a creative job, they'll loop many kinds of efforts until they find the best patterns, because many creative jobs are more involved with trial and error than just doing the same progression. Not just an effort, but the money itself.

As an example, an AI technician, some of the jobs that need adaptation in the AI tech era, are the most financially lucrative part of a job in freelancing, then they kind of produce many AI websites, generate tons of videos for buzzer, or make an AI agent for some companies that require AI to assist their jobs.

With the rise of AI, some of you who do not adapt to this skill may not be able to compete in this professional job life. Then, we are not gamers in this era. However, the only remaining hope and a willingness to come to this world of profession is that we need financial stability in a creative job. For a day-to-day, creative workers do not get much money, with the lowest fee and the withdrawal procedure.

Then, this era has challenged us to be inventive without any financial stability, yet we must get our rights to achieve our life stability, even if we are just a creative worker. Because many people have different kinds of financial conditions, there are a few of them who are shaken by the requirement that creative jobs need a lot of money to be productive, like paying for some of the tools, subscriptions, and so on, even though they are all making efforts in this field to bring in money to their lives.

That this era pace is more happening in the string of "Use your effort, or you die". This era has arisen like a player, doing many things as their sacrifices, to be paid off. It seems our era is changing a lot to push us to become only a fighter who survives until the last breath of blood.

But only groups with enough money and stability can make use of many tools. Yet, for the remaining creative worker, they can compete with their full effort in those capital and skills, but not with the 100% of their grants or sincerity, because of the eradication of putting a lot of effort in working with money, not also with skill's reality is higher than.

In this case, people who have a motivational drive to compete with their competitors are the ones who can have a steady desk job. Why? It might be they stability in the IQ and EQ is phenomenal, or they put the professional matters from every part in their life, not me then.

I am the kind of person who really gets distracted by many of life's distractions. That's why I am telling you now about how far I have been neglected by the growth of this professional era. Sometimes, I was vulnerable about showing my attention in " Who Am I now, an SEO writer in my country, Indonesia. It's not by how I feel ashamed in my condition, but in the points of lack of show-off.

People with a lack of show-off are somewhat unhappy because she/he is really pushing the boundaries, but in negative ways that shaped she/he more insufficently for knowing their potential. However, those boundaries were settled by how their environment showed off to she/he. If the environment was full of denial and not supportive, then it's also a close reason within the boundary.

That many pennies of money are included with some of the world of environment who speak out to us. For me, money is everything to be consistent with life. If you were in denial about not needing much money in this life, I bet you would manipulate someone to not have much money intake. Somehow, when you live a life without any reason why you don't need any money, it's just a sign from your brain and soul that you feel not being apart from this life. But when you were growing up then and thinking about your future life, suddenly you knew why you really needed the money.

So, whereas a creative worker that have a financial weakness, rather same like mine, just be aware of many people who have yours because she/he who could have helped you then. Another person who can not live without a capital should be drowned by their all-out effort to meet her/his first capital.

However, there's another obstacle that meets our first capital. If you were like a person whom already deliberated so much with their life problems, then you find out that only a modal are comes by many people who might dislike each other. Then, whenever you meet this enormous obstacle, the first thing you may quit off your disappointment is by this "being a social animal". If you were unsteady in your socials, then you must seek why that's happened to you and repair those problems only with your carries. Until the lucky charms were enough to assist you in having your first modals.

Where's The Annoying of "Use Your Own Efforts"?

The annoying part is located in those people who don't care and are not responsible for our lives, and they just embark us with hooks in our entire lives with the motto of "Use Your Own Effort". Sometimes, I knew when I realized that I needed more attention from many people besides me, who I know that they have to responsible for me. However, that just emerged in my expectation, not in my real life.

Then, I have told that I was growing myself as an independent, I mean, really! I never asked them to fulfill my requirements, yet I know that they dislike not seeking my independent life being ruined. So, whenever you meet these kinds of cases, it has a meaning too that you are being adjusted by your circle to be living with "Use Your Own Effort".

Sometimes when I have seen another person who is living a lavish life, I think about how they were so lucky ever, besides, it might not be fair in my condition, or maybe I have no business comparing their lives as I compared them. But it's just my heartfelt confession, so it will be alright with me to be saved by not looking throughout their life.

Again, in this life, there are nothing pathway without any hindrances. So do I have a problem with my finances and my progression in my professional life. One thing we should have been carrying for is the learning. There are many offside in our lives that are far away from our expectations to be living with worthiness, but if you can find the pattern to enjoy life with modesty, the one that is fuelled across is by how you adapt with learning. Then, your wisdom of curiosity is only a remaining hint to survive when you know that money is not only your destiny.

Thanks to all of you who read all of my life confessions in this article. See you soon in another article.